We started on this week a series of lessons on “5 things you should not say or do to your spouse. We did a video podcast for last night. To see it, click here. Tell us what you think by leaving a comment there. God Bless.
We are coming back!!
Hello Embrace Fam,
We would like to announce that on August 3, 2020, we’ll be restarting our podcasts. We have been off for a while to get some things arranged so that we can come to minister to you guys again. We haven’t settled on a time, but most likely it will be evening (CST). We will announce more as it develops.
God bless and see you on the next time!
Barry & Karen Craig, Founders, Embrace Marriage Ministries
Update
Hello Embrace Family!
I know it has been a while since you’ve seen us on our various platforms. We have been through a lot of changes since the last time we posted anything. We took some time off to reevaluate our purpose and vision for this work we embarked on.
Marriage is being redefined in our nation and we have to be clear on our stance of it being what God established it. Also, with the divorce rate being increased since COVID-19, it is imperative that we continue to lift up the Solution to the problems of marriage.
That being said, we are praying about the next direction for the ministry. We want to make sure that 1) that what we do is His Will, 2) that what we are doing is what we are graced for, and 3) to make sure our commitment to this is consistent and not lacking.
Our desire is to minister to those who really need it, so pray for us as we make this transition.
Prophet B. A. Craig, Co-Founder , Embrace Marriage Ministries
This is a true statement for us!

July 19: Vengeance versus Blessing
July 19: Vengeance versus Blessing
2 Samuel 3:1–4:12; 1 Peter 3:8–22; Psalm 135:1–21
Comparing the passages of 2 Sam 3:1–4:12 and 1 Pet 3:8–22 teaches us that all Scripture can be used for instruction: Some passages provide wisdom on how to become more like Christ, while others are best regarded as “things not to do.”
Peter’s first letter tells us, “be harmonious, sympathetic, showing mutual affection, compassionate, humble, not repaying evil for evil or insult for insult, but [instead] blessing others, because for this reason you were called, so that you could inherit a blessing” (1 Pet 3:8–9). We can find the same lesson, told a different way, in 2 Sam 3:1–4:12. The violence of the war between David and Saul’s houses vividly portrays how acts of vengeance rob us of harmony and blessing.
Some passages in the Bible are beautiful, while others are barbaric. Both teach us we’re not meant to live in vengeance, like the houses of David and Saul. While we realize these individuals often acted against God’s will, we should still recognize their love for God (when it’s present) and their desire to follow Him (when it appears authentic) and live in those ways. Jesus is the only leader in the Bible we can look to as a supreme example of righteousness. Every other person in the Bible is flawed in their humanity, but that gives us hope: God can use us, like He used them—despite their mistakes.
If we could live up to Peter’s ideals of living in harmony and showing sympathy to others, the world would certainly be a better place, but we can’t do so without depending on God. In the midst of chaos, or when we give in to ego, it’s hard to live the way we should, even when we are people of faith. But when we learn to follow God in being compassionate, humble, and a blessing to people, we create opportunity for Him to bring harmony and sympathy. If David and Saul’s men had put vengeance aside to seek God, their story would certainly have been less barbaric and far more beautiful.
How can you incorporate humility, compassion, and the practice of blessing into your life?
Barry, J. D., & Kruyswijk, R. (2012). Connect the Testaments: A One-Year Daily Devotional with Bible Reading Plan. Bellingham, WA: Lexham Press.
Suffer as a Christian
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-cnmhb-b508f8
This is a lesson we did before our Monday gaming stream ministry. We discussed how to suffer as a Christian in today’s world. The term Christian is used that much now. We have become so politically correct, that now Christians are conservatives and evangelicals. We need to understand that this term represents the Anointed One of God. Tune in to hear more about this topic.
5 Characteristic of a Godly Man
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-c9eir-b49d1c
We are doing our annual podcast for Fathers’ Day. We did a lesson on “5 Characteristics of a Godly Man”. We want to share the five things we shared on tonight.
1. STEP UP: Lead. Initiate. Be a man of action. Assume it is your job and your moment. Hate apathy. Reject passivity.
2. SPEAK OUT: Silence in the midst of sin is a sin. Be courageous. Fear God, not man. Speak the truth in love.
3. STAND STRONG: Don’t give in when you are challenged, attacked, or criticized.
4. STAY HUMBLE: Be vigilant against pride. Get the log out of your eye. Don’t think less of yourself; think of yourself less.
5. SERVE THE KING: Seek first His Kingdom, His glory, and His righteousness. Hope in the eternal. Live for a greater reward.
To hear the audio version of the podcast, go to our website, embracingmarriagetogether.com
It’s Time To Get Up!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-pvfnp-b23ff2
Have you ever been in a situation where you were knocked down and couldn’t get up? It’s a very disorienting thing. You try to get up, but it seems you can’t get your footing or you keep slipping right back on the floor. A lot of us in life feel that way. We try to get up, but we keep falling back down. Then we get to the place where we develop a “flea in the jar mentality”.
Fleas can jump six feet in the air. But if they are subjected to the jar that is only 12 inches with a lid, they will be conditioned to only jump as high as the lid- even with it taken off.
Know this, God has greater things for. Are you willing to get up? Listen to this message and be inspired.
Words of Encouragement
Excellent Work is Resilient
Early in Joseph’s life, his brothers hated him and wanted to kill him. They sold him into slavery and convinced their dad that Joseph was dead. Now, they come to Joseph in need of food. Joseph could finally get his revenge, if he wanted it. But instead Joseph bounced back to a loving relationship with his brothers. This is what he did his entire professional career. Joseph always worked with great resiliency when things didn’t go his way. He didn’t get discouraged or give up. He consistently worked with excellence, whether it was in a prison or palace. He never swayed from serving God though his work.
How could he work with such resiliency? He knew that, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives” (Genesis 50:20). In order to do excellent work that is energized with God’s favor, we need to have the same perspective. Joseph knew that whatever famine or person came to harm him, God would use the situation to bring about something good.
Paul gives us the same perspective in Romans. Not all things that happen to us are good. Some of the things that we do aren’t good. They can be quite bad, in fact. But God is so committed to us that he can take any circumstance and use it for our good. This perspective gives us the power to serve God in our work, no matter what is happening. No matter the motive of your boss, no matter what is happening in the market, God will bring good from it. Then, while others are stuck in fear and scarcity, you can be resilient. You will be able to bounce back … and help others bounce back too.
Prayer
Father, I thank you that you use all things I do and that are done to me for good. Thank you for the hope and certainty of your provision. I know now that, no matter the circumstance, my work can be filled with your favor and bring good. Help me to believe this truth more deeply every day. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
D2BD Podcast – Mothers’ Day Edition
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-jswaq-b0fc8e
Mothers’ Day is coming up soon. A lot of people will be celebrating this holiday with the mothers in their lives. We wanted to share with from Proverbs 31 on how to be a virtuous woman, wife, and mother. We go verse by verse on what she needs to do in order to fulfill the call of virtue. Tune in to hear more from this lesson.
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